There are of course several factors to consider when choosing which business or executive coach to use – experience, qualifications, quality and price being some of the main ones.
Beyond these fundamentals, when deciding which coach to use (as in many decision-making areas of life), people tend to make certain assumptions, and then base their decisions, at least in part, on these.
This article examines some common assumptions, evidence for them, and why there are distinct additional advantages for male executives in using a really great female business coach.
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Common Negative Assumptions
‘Men are More Logical than Women’
There is no credible scientific evidence that women are inherently less logical than men. Claims that men are more logical often stem from cultural stereotypes rather than biology. Psychological and neuroscientific research shows that cognitive abilities such as reasoning, problem-solving and logical thinking are distributed across both sexes with far more overlap than difference.
While small sex-related differences appear in some domains (for example, men may on average score slightly higher on certain spatial reasoning tasks, and women may show an advantage in verbal fluency) these differences do not equate to one gender being more logical or rational overall.
Large-scale meta-analyses of intelligence and cognitive skills consistently conclude that men and women perform equally well on measures of general intelligence and logical reasoning.
The persistence of the ‘less logical women’ stereotype reflects historical biases. Contemporary research emphasises that logic and reasoning are human capacities, not gendered traits, and that opportunities and context shape performance far more than biology.
‘Women are More Emotional than Men’
Scientific evidence does not support the idea that women are inherently ‘more emotional’ than men.
For example, studies using physiological measures (such as heart rate, skin conductance or brain imaging) often find no consistent differences between men and women in how strongly they experience emotions such as fear, anger or sadness.
What does differ is expression. Social and cultural expectations encourage women to show emotions such as sadness, sympathy or joy more openly, while men are often encouraged to suppress these and express anger or pride instead. This leads to a perception that women are ‘more emotional’, when in fact they may simply be more socially permitted to display certain feelings. Meta-analyses in psychology support this, showing that gender differences in emotion are largely shaped by norms, upbringing and situational context rather than biology.
Hormonal factors, such as fluctuations in oestrogen or progesterone, can influence mood in women, but similar hormonal influences exist for men through testosterone. Overall, science suggests that both men and women are equally emotional beings – differences lie primarily in expression and social conditioning, not in fundamental emotional capacity.
‘Men are Better at Business’
There is no scientific evidence that women are inherently less capable at business than men. Research consistently shows that leadership, strategic thinking and decision-making skills are not determined by gender.
Studies comparing male and female managers find that performance outcomes, such as profitability, innovation and employee engagement, are comparable when access to resources and opportunities is equal. In fact, numerous reports indicate that companies with more women in executive positions tend to outperform peers financially.
The perception that women are less capable in business is rooted in historical and cultural biases. Barriers that remain (such as limited mentorship, unequal pay and unconscious bias) reflect systemic challenges rather than innate capability. The scientific consensus is clear: business acumen is not a gendered trait, and women are just as capable as men when given equal opportunity.
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Common Positive Assumptions
‘Women have Greater Emotional intelligence’
Scientific studies provide some evidence that women, on average, score higher than men on certain aspects of emotional intelligence (EI), though the differences are neither universal nor absolute. Emotional intelligence generally refers to the ability to perceive, understand, regulate and use emotions effectively.
Meta-analyses in psychology have found that women often perform better at recognising facial expressions, interpreting emotional cues and demonstrating empathy – skills that are core components of EI. For example, research using standardised EI assessments, such as the Mayer-Salovey-Caruso Emotional Intelligence Test, has shown small but consistent gender differences favouring women in areas like emotional perception and empathy.
Women are also more likely to report greater emotional awareness and interpersonal sensitivity. However, men sometimes score equally well, or even higher, in areas such as emotional regulation under stress, depending on the context.
Importantly, many observed differences are shaped by cultural and social factors. Women are often encouraged from a young age to express emotions and practice empathy, while men may be socialised to suppress emotions and emphasise stoicism. This suggests that socialisation, rather than innate biology, plays a key role.
Overall, scientific evidence points to women showing some advantages in emotional intelligence, but with significant overlap and variability across individuals.
‘Women are More Collaborative’
There is some scientific evidence suggesting that women, on average, may be more collaborative than men, though these differences are shaped by both socialisation and context. Collaboration involves working cooperatively, sharing resources and prioritising group goals over individual recognition.
Studies in organisational psychology and behavioural economics have found that women are often more likely to adopt cooperative strategies in group settings, particularly when tasks require communication and trust. For example, research in workplace settings suggest that female leaders tend to emphasise participatory decision-making and consensus building, qualities linked with collaboration.
Neuroscientific studies have explored whether differences in brain networks related to social cognition might play a role, but evidence remains mixed and inconclusive. Cultural expectations, however, strongly shape these patterns. From an early age, girls are often encouraged to value relationships, share and maintain harmony, while boys may be more rewarded for independence and competition.
Overall, scientific findings suggest that women may, on average, show stronger collaborative tendencies, but individual variation and situational factors are far more influential than gender alone.
‘Women Bring Diverse Perspectives’
Scientific evidence does not indicate that women inherently have ‘more diverse perspectives’ than men in a biological sense. However, research in psychology, sociology and organisational studies suggests that women often bring different viewpoints to problem-solving and decision-making, largely due to varied social experiences and expectations. Diversity of perspective is shaped less by innate cognitive differences and more by life context, opportunities and cultural roles.
Because women historically have faced different societal challenges, they may approach problems with insights that differ from those of men. Studies in business and leadership show that teams with greater gender diversity often produce more innovative solutions and make more balanced decisions, suggesting that women can add perspectives that complement those of men. This is not because women are ‘naturally’ more diverse in thinking, but because lived experiences influence how people frame problems and generate solutions.
Importantly, diversity of perspective exists within both genders, and individual differences often outweigh group averages.
The scientific consensus is that gender can contribute to perspective diversity in organisations and society, but it is primarily social, cultural and experiential factors that drive these differences.
So Why Do Men Need a Female Business Coach?
Given that the evidence overwhelmingly supports the fundamental proposition that these positive and negative common assumptions about the genders and their respective capabilities are usually mainly inaccurate (with the exception of socialisation, historical and cultural effects), are there any reasons why a female business coach is a better choice for men?
It is of course absolutely true that every individual coach is just that – individual – and should be assessed and chosen based on their individual experience, capabilities and expertise, not on their gender.
However, there are some practical reasons why, in the personal experience of the author, male clients have reported particularly good outcomes from working with a great female business coach.
This experience may of course be unrepresentative of the wider population of business and executive coaching clients, but these factors are reported by the vast majority of male clients Mary Taylor has worked with.
More Honest Feedback
One of the most valuable roles a business coach fulfils is creating a structured environment for self-reflection, critical analysis and professional growth.
A coach’s ability to deliver candid feedback and offer alternative perspectives is essential for helping clients identify blind spots, challenge assumptions and unlock their full potential. The quality of this feedback directly influences the pace of development, the level of performance and the effectiveness of skill-building.
Male clients reported being more open to hearing constructive feedback from a female business coach – in other words, that a woman could say things to them that they would not so readily accept from another man.
This dynamic produced a greater willingness to engage with honest assessments, making the feedback process more comprehensive and accurate – resulting in faster progress and increased goal-achievement.
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Stronger Coaching Relationship
A hallmark of the most effective and successful coaching engagements is the presence of a strong, trusted interpersonal connection between coach and coachee.
This relationship is not merely transactional; it is a partnership built on mutual respect, understanding and a shared commitment to growth. When coachees experience trust and closeness with their coach, they are more likely to engage fully and take greater action toward their goals.
Male clients frequently report that working with a female business coach provides a distinctive relational experience, characterised by heightened connection, trust and enjoyment.
These qualities create an environment in which clients feel comfortable discussing challenges and exploring new perspectives and possibilities they might not do in other professional relationships. It ensures that sessions are a particularly positive experience, compounding the impact and results that can be achieved.
The combination of professional expertise and a strong interpersonal bond is what defines truly exceptional coaching relationships and drives the greatest professional development outcomes.
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Greater Accountability
Another cornerstone of exceptional coaching is the ability of the coach to facilitate tangible, real-world change through accountability – the process of holding the coachee responsible for implementing specific tasks or deliverables.
Accountability is fundamental to the coaching process because identifying goals and discussing strategies alone does not create meaningful outcomes; without concrete follow-through, plans remain theoretical. Effective coaches ensure that action plans are not only clearly defined but also actively monitored and supported, reinforcing the connection between intention and execution.
Self-reporting from male clients indicates that they often experience a heightened sense of accountability when working with a female business coach. Clients reported that they were motivated not to disappoint their coach by failing to implement agreed-upon action points – stemming from a desire to demonstrate to their coach their engagement with the process, capability in executing tasks and effectiveness in achieving outcomes.
This dynamic of increased accountability frequently translates into higher levels of engagement and more consistent action. When clients feel personally responsible to a trusted coach, they are more likely to commit to applying insights, completing tasks and striving for measurable success. Consequently, the coaching process yields significantly stronger results, enhanced performance and more substantial personal and professional growth.
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Conclusion: The Value of a Female Business Coach for Men
Selecting a business or executive coach involves considering factors such as experience, qualifications and expertise. Beyond these fundamentals, evidence challenges common gender-based assumptions about the attributes of female and male coaches.
However, individual client experiences indicate that a female business coach can provide particularly candid feedback, foster strong interpersonal connections and encourage additional accountability in male clients.
Male coachees report being more receptive to constructive feedback, feeling a greater sense of responsibility to implement agreed actions and involving themselves more deeply in the coaching process when engaged with a female business coach. These dynamics lead to higher performance, enhanced success and more impactful outcomes.
While each coaching relationship is individual and should be assessed based on the coach’s specific expertise and fit, the combination of increased feedback, unique coaching relations and greater accountability offered by female coaches can create a uniquely effective environment for male executives.
In sum, practical experience suggest that working with a skilled female business coach can accelerate growth, improve results and enhance overall development outcomes.
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About Mary Taylor
Mary Taylor has worked with top executives in many globally recognised brands, from which she has developed a unique understanding of corporate life at the top and the challenges faced by the people there.
Traditional executive coaching is often criticised for lacking bite, failing to challenge ingrained behaviours and leaving behind little in the way of actionable recommendations. Mary Taylor’s approach is very different. She views coaching and consultancy to be much more about real-world problem-solving, addressing difficult issues head on and delivering impactful solutions.
Mary’s academic and professional background includes working in a maximum-security prison and as a top corporate lawyer. She is also a qualified psychologist and draws on a wealth of experience to deliver hard-hitting advice and recommendations that have had major impacts on leading organisations across the world.
Mary backs all of her services with a full client satisfaction guarantee. Excellence is the standard: if you are not completely satisfied, we do not retain fees.
To explore how we can support your business journey, Mary offers a free, no-obligation initial consultation. Whether you want to ask questions, discuss your business or explore the options available, she can help provide guidance and clarity.
